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Your Own AI. 100% Tailored to You.

You choose what to replace, what to connect, and what stays completely offline. A free guide for anyone ready to build one system around their whole life and business.

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For coaches, consultants, and solopreneurs ready to build AI that actually understands their work.

What You'll Learn

  • 01 Watch a deep conversation and live demo (full 45-min session)
  • 02 What to hand over to AI and what to keep human
  • 03 Your planning checklist to get started
  • 04 Your next steps to build your own system

Watch the Full Session

Watch a deep conversation and live demo showing how a personalized AI system completely transforms the way you work and live. In 45 minutes, you will see morning check-ins, dream analysis, one-command website builds, cost comparisons, and what it actually feels like when your system knows you.

What You Will See

  • A real morning check-in with energy tracking and daily planning
  • Dream analysis connected to personal themes and patterns
  • A full website page built from scratch in minutes
  • Cost comparison: 10+ SaaS tools vs one unified system
  • How the system remembers context across sessions

This is not a tutorial.

This is a real conversation and live demo. You will see what it actually looks like when someone has a personalized AI system running across every part of their life and business. The guide pages that follow break down the key takeaways so you can apply them to your own practice.

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What to Hand Over vs. Keep

AI should take the weight off the tasks that drain you, so you can pour your energy into the work that only you can do. Here is how to think about the split.

Hand Over to AI

These tasks follow patterns, take time, and do not require your unique human presence.

Scheduling and Follow-ups

Calendar management, appointment reminders, email follow-ups after sessions. These are repetitive tasks that AI handles beautifully.

Content Repurposing

Turning a blog post into social media content, creating carousels from your ideas, drafting newsletters from your session notes.

CRM and Client Tracking

Keeping track of who you last spoke to, when follow-ups are due, client milestones, and pipeline management.

Admin and Invoicing

Invoice generation, expense tracking, proposal templates, and all the administrative work that keeps your business running.

Keep Human

These are the things that make you irreplaceable. No AI can do this work for you.

1. Client Sessions

The actual coaching, the presence, the listening, the questions that shift something. This is your gift. AI prepares you for the session. You deliver it.

2. Relationship Building

The genuine connection with clients, the trust, the rapport. AI can remind you to reach out. The conversation is yours.

3. Intuition and Judgment

When to push, when to hold space, when something is off. Your body wisdom and professional instinct cannot be automated.

4. Creative Direction

Your voice, your methodology, your unique perspective on the work. AI can execute. The vision is yours.

"Using AI in an intentional way is especially important for life coaches because our work is very sensitive. You need to know what stays private and what the system can access."

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The Key Question

Before automating anything, ask: "Does this automation free me up for deeper work, or does it bypass something I need to feel, process, or do myself?" The goal is not to do more. It is to have more space, more presence, more room for the work that actually matters.

Step 2 of 4

Your Planning Checklist

Before you build anything, take 30 minutes to answer these five questions. This clarity will save you hours of trial and error when you start setting up your system.

1. Map Your Current Tools

Write down every tool you currently pay for and what you use it for. Include the monthly cost. This is not about judging yourself. It is about seeing the full picture.

Example: Calendly ($12/mo), Mailchimp ($20/mo), Canva ($13/mo), Notion ($10/mo), Kajabi ($149/mo), Zoom ($14/mo)

2. Identify Your Biggest Time Sinks

What tasks eat up your week but do not directly serve your clients? Admin? Content creation? Switching between apps? These are your automation candidates.

3. List What You Wish Your System Knew

What information do you constantly look up? Client details? Your pricing? Your brand voice? Content from past sessions? Your system should know these things so you do not have to look them up every time.

4. Define Your Boundaries

What stays human? Client sessions? Relationship messages? Creative direction? Write it down. These boundaries are sacred. Your system should respect them completely.

5. Start with ONE Thing

Do not try to automate everything at once. Pick one area: your morning routine, client notes, or content creation. Get that working well before expanding. The best system is one that grows with you.

"AI is not the point. Life is the point. Tech should help you close the laptop faster, not keep you glued to it."

Step 3 of 4

Ready to Build Yours?

You have watched a real demo, learned what to automate and what to keep human, and mapped out your planning checklist. Here is what comes next.

What You Learned

  • Watched a real conversation and live demo of a working AI system
  • Learned what to hand over to AI and what to keep human
  • Understood the intentional approach to AI for sensitive work
  • Got a 5-step planning checklist to prepare for your build

Build Your Own System

The DIY course teaches you everything, step by step. 10 modules covering your root file, integrations, content creation, websites, and more. All four languages included.

$300 early bird (regular $500)

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Or build with others:

Root File Sprint (April cohort) $1,000
Done-With-You 1:1 Build $3,500

Not sure yet? Let us talk through what your system could look like. No pressure, no pitch. Just clarity.

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Maaria Tiensivu

Hi, I'm Maaria

Service Designer turned transformational coach. I founded The Four Languages in 2023 to help people grow through all dimensions of life: mind, heart, body, and soul.

Since 2018, I have been helping knowledge workers make the most out of their life and work through a mix of tech, real-world solutions, and human coaching. Now I help coaches, consultants, and solopreneurs build AI systems that actually understand their work. Not generic chatbots, but personalized systems that know your clients, your process, and your values.

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